I rarely watch TV, and last night I watched a show regarding and woman and sex toys. Anne Summers recruited a group of women off the street from a range of background, sexual experience and age to create a sex toy they would then create and sell. Most sex toys for women are apparently created by men.
On the show was a woman who never had an orgasm. In the past she faked it by making all the right movements, and sounds. The Product Manager at Anne Summers provided her with sex toys to help get an orgasm but alas nothing worked.
I felt the pressure she was putting on herself and it was obvious to me the blocks were not physical but emotional. No wonder these toys didn't work! They shouldn't be used as substitute for a partner or a deeper sexual experience and connection.
It was incredibly brave and courageous for her to share this, and then it was later revealed that she was also sexually abused as a child. This was the first time she talked about it and it felt she was on a personal journey to achieve the exclusive orgasm and this was part of that journey.
One in four women in the UK do not orgasm.
Our earlier experiences shape who we become as adults and our sexual identity. If a person suffers from a traumatic experiences, is not in touch with emotions, or finds it difficult to connect with others this is going to manifest in sexual experience - whether it's low sex drive, experiencing painful sex or unable to orgasm.
Within each woman is the ability to open their hear, mind, body and spirit to reach their sexual peak regardless of age and experience. I was touched by an older women in the group who was 69 who still had an amazing sex life with her husband. She was so open and had a lovely sexual essence.
If you are ready to reach your sexual peak and remove the emotional blocks which are stopping you from getting there please call me. As a Hypnotherapist specialising in sexual problems I have helped many woman over the years. Please call 075 3421 3556.
Appointments are available in London in Harley Street and Holborn and also Glastonbury on Mondays.