As a society we have been conditioned to view mistakes or failures as wrong. It's a sign of a weakness of our character.
As a Coach and Hypnotherapist in London I see many fear failure and it's no wonder why. Because they look at mistakes in the wrong light. They focus on what went wrong, what others think of them and how terrible a person they are for making the mistake.
When you just focus on the failure or mistake you are simply diverting your energy on the error and it becomes difficult to move forward. As a result you experience more fear, stress and anxiety.
If you begin to see mistakes and failures as an opportunity for potential growth and development your life will begin to change and you open the door to more grown, success and happiness.
When you begin to explore the situation or even, your accountability and responsibility (without blame or judgement) you see the situation much more clearly.
This new perspective provides you with insights, and learnings which you can apply into your life. When you do this it creates growth, movement and strength of character.
This allows you to grow and develop and can be applied to any situation from relationships, business, family, financial situation and personal life.
This journey in your life is not about standing still and focusing on the past mistakes and failures. It's an evolutionary journey of growth and development and that is where real success, joy and happiness expands from.
The gold is not on what happened. It been and gone and you can't change the past. The gold is what you can learn from the experience and grow from it.
Focus your attention and energy on what is important, create movement, grow and develop and take action. As a result you have the opportunity to create a meaningful and extraordinary life.
Linda Connors Hypnotherapist and Coach