Is sexual performance anxiety killing your sex life?

When sexual performance anxiety kills your sex life Anxiety your sexual performance in the bedroom can kill your sex life. When self-doubt, fears, or worrying about your performance creep into the bedroom it can have a negative impact upon your sex life. Just imagine this.  You are becoming intimate with your partner. Then you start to overthink things. Your heart rate increases.  You begin to enter…

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How to stop premature ejaculation in its tracks

The ejaculation control brakes are dysfunctional The men I work with tend to fall into the two categories. For some men the premature ejaculation has been a life long condition.  For other men it can appear suddenly without warning. Often at the start of a new relationship especially if the other person may be the “one”.  For both categories the sexual anxiety, fear and worries…

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How to treat delayed ejaculation

Hello and a warm welcome to you. In this article I will share a proven blueprint on how to treat delayed ejaculation. As a sex hypnotherapist, I understand how challenging this condition can be and the impact it has on your sex life. Delayed ejaculation is the lesser-known sexual problem for men,  compared to premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. However, many men do still have…

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Why suggestion hypnosis is limiting when working with sexual problems

Working with sexual problems Working with sexual problems is an intimate part of human life. As a sexual problems hypnotherapist and coach my clients open the door to their intimate thoughts, fears and sex life.   Working with sexual problems is very different to working with stop smoking, blushing, or addictions because we are dealing with one of the most sacred parts of being human.   I’ve…

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10 Factors blocking women’s orgasms and their solutions

What stops you from having an orgasm? Are you seeking what feels like the exclusive orgasm? Perhaps you have never experienced an orgasm. Maybe you only have had orgasms occasionally or only through self-stimulation.  Or does your orgasm quite never reaches its peak. Rest assured you are not the only one. Never underestimate the effect not being able to orgasm has on you. As the…

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4 mindsets traps that men fall into about their sexual performance

If you experience ejaculating too soon, , erection issues or anxiety about sex here are the most common 4 mindset traps men fall into during sex.  When you have sex and if you are embodying and thinking one or more of these mindsets you will simply default back into sexual anxiety, low sexual confidence.  This will trigger sexual issues and as a result shorten your sexual experience….

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Fixed vs Growth mindset: how two simple mindsets can control your sex life

When you experience an issue in your sex life do you just accept it as it is? Think that it will be permanent issue and will not improve? Perhaps you limit your life by restricting the possibilities for sex, relationships or dating because you fear you will ejaculate too soon, lose your erection or just be too sexually anxious about your performance.  ​If so perhaps…

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How porn addiction negatively affects your sex life and relationship

How porn impacts your sex life Due to my hypnotherapy work with porn addiction, I have seen first hand how porn is having a detrimental effect on men’s lives. Because their work begins to suffer, sex life becomes boring as they need more extreme ways to get turned on, relationships and intimacy are at a low and it can also take longer to ejaculate with…

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